When a child starts school, many mothers dream of seeing their child excel academically and achieve a prestigious position in society one day. The shock comes when a bright, quick-witted child begins bringing home low grades, despite appearing intelligent. In a special interview with Sayidaty and Your Child, educational counselor Aref Abdullah explains three common reasons mothers often overlook.
1. Weak Reading and Writing Basics
A major hidden reason for poor academic performance is weakness in basic reading and writing skills. Some children memorize quickly and answer oral questions well, yet struggle with written exams due to poor handwriting or difficulty distinguishing letters. Teachers may be unable to read their answers, resulting in low marks.
Improving handwriting (especially Naskh script), practicing spelling, and reinforcing letter recognition with a specialist can significantly improve grades.
2. Rapid Forgetfulness Due to Health Issues
If a child forgets lessons quickly, appears fatigued, pale, or struggles with concentration, the cause may be iron deficiency or low iron stores (ferritin). Iron is essential for brain development and oxygen transport in the blood.
For school-aged children under 15, normal ferritin levels range between 7 and 140 ng/mL. Checking iron levels and treating deficiencies can greatly enhance memory and academic performance.
3. Anxiety and Fear Affect Academic Performance
A child’s psychological state plays a crucial role in learning. Threats, shouting, physical punishment, or constant comparison with others increase anxiety and fear, leading to poorer results.
Family conflicts and an unstable home environment also negatively affect a child’s sense of security and concentration. Children need encouragement, emotional safety, and positive reinforcement—not pressure or fear—to succeed.
Key Advice for Parents
Support reading and writing skills early
Monitor your child’s physical health, especially iron levels
Provide a calm, loving, and encouraging home environment
Avoid punishment and comparisons
Praise effort, even when results are modest
A stable family atmosphere and consistent emotional support are essential foundations for a child’s academic success.
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