Raising a newborn properly depends on providing love, safety, and emotional, visual, and physical stimulation through cuddling, talking, and interaction. It also requires meeting basic needs such as proper feeding, safe sleep (on the back), and seeking help when needed, while maintaining a routine to give the baby a sense of security. Bringing a newborn home from the hospital can be nerve-racking for any parent—especially first-time parents who may feel overwhelmed by the fear of making mistakes. Read on to learn about the most common newborn care mistakes and how to avoid them.
1. Car Seat Safety Issues
Some parents make the mistake of not practicing essential baby-care tasks before birth. While diaper changing may seem intuitive, other tasks—like using a car seat—are not always so simple. Since hospitals require parents to take the baby home in a proper car seat, make sure it is installed before delivery. If needed, consult a certified Child Passenger Safety Technician.
Many parents buy the car seat and even learn how to install it correctly, but never actually practice using it before the baby arrives—not even with a doll. Most hospitals cannot legally place the baby in the car seat for you or explain how to use it.
A 2016 study published in Pediatrics involving nearly 300 families found that 91% made serious mistakes when installing car seats or positioning their newborns. About 86% of these errors were related to how the baby was placed in the seat, many of them extremely dangerous.
For newborns, parents must ensure the baby’s head does not fall forward, which can obstruct breathing. The seat should be installed at the correct angle so the baby’s body leans slightly back. If the baby tilts to the side, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends using tightly rolled receiving blankets placed along the sides of the baby, or a newborn insert designed specifically for that car seat model. Never place padding under the baby or around the head unless it is approved by the seat manufacturer.
2. Incorrect Sleeping Position
The “Back to Sleep” campaign launched in the 1990s significantly raised awareness about Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and sleep-related infant deaths. The American Academy of Pediatrics strongly recommends that babies sleep on their backs, in their own crib, with no soft bedding, pillows, toys, or bumpers.
Although sleep-related deaths decreased after the campaign, the risk still exists. Each year, around 3,500 infants die from sleep-related causes. A CDC study found that one in five mothers places her baby to sleep on the side or stomach, and 39% use soft bedding—both dangerous practices.
3. Not Feeding on Demand
Some new parents let their baby sleep too long between feedings due to exhaustion. However, experts stress that during the first few weeks, newborns need to feed every 2–3 hours, even if they do not ask. Once the baby regains birth weight and with pediatrician approval, longer sleep stretches may be allowed.
4. Improper Burping
Failing to burp a newborn properly is a common mistake. Without adequate burping, babies may spit up, choke, or wake up crying from gas pain. This disrupts both the baby’s comfort and the parents’ rest.
There are several effective burping techniques, such as holding the baby upright against the shoulder and gently patting the back, laying the baby tummy-down across the parent’s lap, or sitting the baby upright while supporting the head and chest. Taking an extra 5–10 minutes to burp properly can make a big difference.
5. Skipping Burping Before Feeding
Most parents think of burping only after feeding, but experts recommend burping the baby for at least two minutes before feeding as well. This helps release trapped air and reduces gas and spit-up, especially during the first month of life.
6. Mistakes in Formula Preparation or Breastfeeding
Errors in mixing formula—making it too concentrated or too diluted—are common and can prevent proper growth. Always follow the instructions on the formula container exactly.
In breastfeeding, improper latch can mean the baby appears to nurse but is not actually feeding. Mothers experiencing pain or concern should consult a lactation specialist and follow up regularly with the pediatrician to ensure healthy weight gain.
7. Not Enough Tummy Time
Keeping babies in car seats, swings, or carriers for long periods limits movement and stimulation. Excessive time lying on the back can cause flat spots on the head and may delay motor and language development.
When the baby is awake and not traveling, they should spend time on their tummy or be carried by a parent. Tummy time helps strengthen muscles and supports healthy development.
8. Underestimating or Overreacting to Fever
For babies under three months, a temperature of 38°C (100.4°F) or higher requires immediate medical attention. For older infants, fever should be evaluated based on the child’s overall condition: drinking fluids, activity level, breathing, and sleep. Most fevers are caused by mild infections and are not dangerous on their own.
9. Maintaining the Right Home Temperature
Parents often worry about whether their baby is too hot or too cold. Generally, a home temperature of about 20–22°C (68–72°F) is comfortable. Babies should feel warm—not hot or cold—to the touch. Cold babies burn extra calories to stay warm, which can affect healthy weight gain. Cold hands and feet are normal due to immature circulation.
10. Taking Newborns to Crowded Places
While parents may want to show off their newborn at large family gatherings, experts advise caution—especially during the first two months. A newborn’s immune system is still developing, making them more vulnerable to infections. Fresh air and daily walks are encouraged, but crowded indoor places should be avoided.
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