Children are intelligent and highly sensitive, able to feel everything a parent does—whether loving or angry. Even if they seem calm, certain parental behaviors can negatively impact their personality and emotional well-being over time. Here are the main things that can upset your child and how to handle them:
1. Comparing Them to Others
Comparing your child to other children makes them feel sad and unvalued, as if you prefer someone else.
Effects: Low self-esteem, feelings of inadequacy, sibling rivalry.
Tip: Treat all your children equally and dedicate special time and attention to each one, especially the older child when a new sibling arrives.
2. Yelling at Them
Raising your voice in anger makes your child scared and confused.
Effects: Negative childhood memories, loss of self-confidence, introversion, potential psychological issues.
Tip: Avoid yelling as a form of discipline. Use calm, clear methods to correct behavior.
3. Constant Criticism
Constant blame and criticism make your child feel that nothing they do is right.
Effects: Shyness, anxiety, mild depression, poor focus, lack of motivation to try new things.
Tip: Focus on encouragement and guidance instead of constant criticism. Praise achievements and positive behavior.
4. Complaining About Them to Others
When you complain about your child in front of others, they feel like a burden and lose self-confidence.
Effects: Embarrassment, low self-esteem, seeking validation from others rather than parents.
Tip: Keep your concerns private and address issues directly with your child. Praise them wisely without exaggeration in front of strangers.
Summary: Healthy Parenting Practices
Remember that your child feels everything you do and their childhood is a precious time for joy and play.
Goal: Ensure your child feels love, care, and emotional security.
General Guidelines:
Avoid comparisons and constant criticism.
Never use yelling as discipline.
Keep your frustrations away from your child.
Praise and support them consistently to create a sense of unconditional acceptance.
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