Recurrent miscarriage is a common health issue that many don’t see but leaves an unforgettable scar in the soul of the pregnant mother. Global estimates indicate that about 10–15% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, and one in five women experience symptoms of depression and anxiety after the experience. Women who have recurrent miscarriages are three times more likely to suffer from symptoms of psychological trauma.
Therefore, it is useful to listen to the story of Mrs. "Layla," 29 years old, who went through this experience three times and managed to overcome it, despite the exhaustion, confusion, trembling in her words, and the evident tension in her eyes as she recounted her story to the readers of "Nadormagazine."
In this report, we explore "My Experience" with recurrent miscarriage and learn from Dr. Bahaa Eldin Darwish, Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology, about the causes and possible treatments for this type of miscarriage.
Mrs. Layla’s Feelings and Silent Pain
Layla says:
"I went through my miscarriage experience, and just one month ago, I lost my third pregnancy again. Unfortunately, no one gave me a clear answer, which made me feel lost.
I stopped wanting to get pregnant after the first and second miscarriages, but I never forgot the tears of every loss or the silence of every doctor who had no explanation. After my second pregnancy, bleeding started, and they told me this was common. But two months before my third pregnancy, there was no clear reason for the miscarriage.
They told me that about 1–3% of women suffer from recurrent miscarriage, and I didn’t know at the time that I was part of this small percentage. It truly is a painful experience both physically and psychologically.
I felt guilty, as if my body was betraying me. My husband tried to support me, but I found myself distancing from everyone — my friends, family, even myself. I felt sadness, anger, and fear, which pushed me to search online. I learned that women who suffer recurrent miscarriage are three times more likely to develop post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms, and this applies not only to women but also to their partners."
Layla’s Medical Journey
Layla continues:
"I decided to find out the causes and treatments. I did all the required tests for the fourth time, and they told me everything was normal: no hormonal disorders, no uterine problems, no immune diseases. Still, I was confused — how do I explain to myself and others that I lost three embryos for no reason?
From my experience, I learned that about half of miscarriage cases have no clear cause, and for me, this lack of explanation added to my heartache. I started going to specialized clinics for psychological support and close monitoring, hoping to increase my chances of success from 33% to more than 80%, as many studies have shown.
Let me share more — miscarriage, my friends, is not only an emotional experience but a physical one too. Bleeding, hormonal imbalances, abdominal pain, even anemia — all of these hurt me. But medical follow-up is essential to care for the body.
Today, I fear the future. Every new pregnancy is a painful gamble, and I can no longer bear the thought of another loss. After recurrent miscarriages, I changed the doctors following my case, out of fear and a desire to work with a specialist in high-risk pregnancies."
Postpartum Experience and Renewed Hope
Medical and Psychological Follow-up: The First Steps to Healing
From my journey with recurrent miscarriages, I learned that women who experience repeated pregnancy loss are more likely to suffer from heart disease and blood clots in the future. Therefore, it is crucial to monitor their overall health, not just reproductive health.
Layla speaks with sadness:
"I remember the day I decided to seek psychological support. I felt ashamed at first, but therapy changed my life. It taught me how to deal with grief, express it, and not blame myself for what is beyond my control!
I had not yet considered joining a support group; I hesitated. But just sitting with women who shared my experience would have given me the feeling that I am not alone, strengthening me with purpose.
My experience was not easy, but it taught me patience and gave me the ability to hold pain without being overwhelmed by it. But I do not forget those I lost; I remind myself that they were real and my grief for them is real.
I still remember my last doctor’s words: Healing does not mean forgetting but living with it. You will learn how to smile again, how to dream without fear of breaking. And be sure, dear lady, you are stronger than you think. Who knows, you want it, the doctor tries, and God wills."
Understanding Miscarriage and Its Causes
Dr. Bahaa Eldin Darwish explains:
Miscarriage is the loss of the embryo during pregnancy, usually within the first three months. It poses risks to the mother’s physical and psychological health. Causes include:
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Genetic problems in the couple
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Immune system disorders
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Fetal abnormalities, especially neurological defects
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Uterine problems such as malformations and fibroids, ovulation disorders
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Blood clotting disorders causing recurrent miscarriage
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Advanced maternal age, especially pregnancies over 40
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Bacterial or viral infections, including bacterial vaginosis
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Exposure to smoking and chemicals
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Radiation and chemotherapy exposure
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Taking medications without consulting a doctor
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Excessive physical exertion that affects pregnancy and causes miscarriage
7 Diagnostic Methods to Identify Causes of Recurrent Miscarriage
Only a specialist doctor can diagnose causes and decide the appropriate tests:
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Ultrasound or X-ray imaging to detect uterine and cervical abnormalities
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Tests for autoimmune disorders and antibodies
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Hormonal tests related to thyroid, pituitary, adrenal glands, and diabetes
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Blood clotting tests and checking family history of clotting disorders
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Genetic testing of fetal tissue from miscarriages to detect inherited conditions
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Chromosomal testing of the parents to identify genetic predisposition
Steps to Treat Recurrent Miscarriage
Several options exist to overcome causes of recurrent miscarriage, such as:
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Surgery or IVF (In Vitro Fertilization), where the woman receives injections to stimulate multiple eggs in the ovaries.
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Eggs are then collected surgically, and a single sperm is injected into each egg to fertilize it. The embryos grow in special conditions.
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One cell from each embryo is tested genetically to ensure healthy DNA before transferring the healthy embryos into the uterus.
Note from Nadormagazine: Always consult a specialized doctor before applying any treatment or remedy.
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