On March 8th, and every day, the world celebrates the women who play vital roles in our lives—mothers, wives, sisters, and inspiring women who have made significant contributions in every field of society. While the world outside your home is busy celebrating and honoring women, as a mother, it is equally important for you to explain to your children the significance of this day, its history, and the importance of recognizing and appreciating the role of women in their lives from a young age.
Children naturally have a strong connection with their mothers, but they might not always understand the sacrifices mothers make. Therefore, it is essential for mothers to help children recognize the significant role of women, not only as mothers but also as pioneers in various fields in society. In an exclusive interview with educational counselor Shaimaa Aziz, she shared insights on how to use International Women's Day to help children learn the value of women in their lives. This can be done through various steps, including the father’s involvement in celebrating this day with the children. Here are a few ways to educate your children about this special occasion:
Introduce Your Child to the History of International Women's Day
Explain to your children before and on International Women’s Day that men and women complement each other in society, but history has witnessed numerous instances of injustice towards women. Tell them that in 1945, the First Congress of the Women's Democratic Union was held in Paris, marking the first global celebration of International Women's Day. Also, inform them that in 1856, thousands of American women protested against their harsh working conditions in the United States.
You can continue by telling your children that on March 8th, 1908, thousands of women working in textile factories in New York City went on strike to demand shorter working hours, a ban on child labor, and the right for women to vote. This day became known as "Bread and Roses" because the women carried dry bread and roses during the demonstration. Later, this event was adopted as International Women’s Day, spreading from the U.S. to Europe and eventually worldwide.
Why Should Your Child Celebrate International Women’s Day?
It is essential to explain to your children that there are many reasons, both historical and present-day, to celebrate International Women’s Day. There are many women, not just mothers, who have played inspirational roles in society and have contributed to humanity, community service, and their countries.
Use this opportunity to introduce your children to the celebrations of this day in different countries. For example, in Australia, International Women's Day is celebrated with large marches and discussions about the role of women, which started back in 1970. These celebrations often include breakfasts and talks from prominent women in society.
Additionally, you can share with your children the importance that Saudi Arabia places on honoring women, as highlighted by Prince Mohammad bin Salman, who once said, "I support Saudi women because half of Saudi Arabia is women." Explain to your children how Saudi Arabia has quickly progressed in terms of gender equality, and they should take pride in their country's achievements.
What Should Fathers Teach Their Children About International Women’s Day?
A father's role in celebrating International Women’s Day is equally important, and this will reflect on how children view and appreciate women. Fathers should talk to their children about the significance of this day, explaining that it is a day to honor all women—whether they are mothers, sisters, or leaders in society. It’s important for boys to understand the respect and appreciation they should have for their mothers and sisters.
The father's conversation with his children about the history of International Women’s Day in both Arab and Western cultures will have a more profound impact than if the mother shares this information alone. Fathers should also talk about how Islam has always honored and celebrated women, long before the rest of the world recognized their role. They can share Quranic verses and Hadith that highlight the rights and dignity given to women in Islam, such as the right to own property, engage in trade, receive education, and work in various fields, including teaching.
When fathers talk about Islam's treatment of women, especially in front of young boys, it will help to instill respect for women from an early age. Fathers should set an example by recognizing the importance of women in their lives and being role models for respect and appreciation. Islam emphasized the need for men to provide for their wives and treat them with kindness. It also forbade men from being abusive towards their wives. This reflects the high value placed on women and acknowledges their vital role in raising righteous children who contribute positively to society.
Conclusion
Celebrating International Women's Day at home with your children is a powerful way to instill respect and appreciation for women. By explaining the history of the day, highlighting the importance of women in different cultures, and showing how society—both locally and globally—honors women, you can help your children recognize the invaluable role women play in society. Fathers’ involvement in this celebration is crucial, as it will deeply influence how children, especially boys, view and treat women with respect and dignity for the rest of their lives.
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